Excellence in Leadership Award:
Mr. William Chang
For centuries, philosophers
have debated the purpose and meaning of life. To me, life is about being a
leader who can stand on top of a world and look beyond it. Our constant
perseverance to thrive for excellence and knowledge is what elevates our species
above its origin. However, leadership is not innate but rather an acquired
skill. Growing up in a strict Asian household shaped me into a timid individual.
Thus, due to my introverted personality, I never had much experience being that
inspirational leader.
For every life changing
experience, there is beginning. Mine began two years ago when I decided to
pledge for Lambda Phi Epsilon. For years, Lambdas around the nation have thrived
to educate new incoming members about the fraternity motto: “To be leaders among
men”. However, what is this leadership that we speak of? Many people can recite
the characteristics of a leader but can not provide personal experiences to
support them. I found my answers through my experiences in the fraternity.
Despite being a pledge
captain, I was still desperately searching for an opportunity to take leadership
roles as an active member of Lambda Phi Epsilon. That opportunity came to me two
years ago when the fraternity needed someone to coordinate a dance team to
compete in the Asian Greek Council Talent Show. This was an extremely difficult
task due to the lack of dancers within our fraternity. However, without
hesitation, I stepped forward and took that responsibility because, after three
years on several dance teams, I was the only choreographer in the fraternity.
Despite my enthusiasm, the
first day of practice was extremely disorganized and unproductive. There was a
lot of material to cover and I did not really plan out the practice ahead of
time. In addition, being a younger active, older brothers did not listen to me
nor obeyed my orders. Adding to the chaos, people continuously complained that
the moves were too hard to perfect. That night after practice, I recollected
myself and planned the next practice in a more organized fashion. At the
beginning of next practice, I established control of the team. First, I firmly
emphasize that the practice would only end when I said so. Likewise, I announced
my goals for each practice, and by the end of the night, I would make sure that
those goals were met. I then began to realize that once I had more organized
practices and started projecting myself, people started to listen. People wanted
to follow someone who could take control, show presence, and more importantly,
someone who clearly knew what he was doing.
As the talent show
approached, I demanded perfection and pushed everyone beyond their limits. As a
result, there were many times when people wanted to quit because it was taking
up too much of their time. This is when I discovered that the hardest part about
being a leader is to inspire people through tough times. I realized the best way
to inspire people is to lead by example. If the team notices that you are
enduring the same, if not worse, adversity, they will naturally respect you more
and work harder. It is not about commanding a crowd and ordering them to do
better, but rather inspiring them to want to do better for themselves. In
addition, although I pushed my team hard, I continuously gave them words of
encouragement to acknowledge their improvements. When faced with hardship,
people may start doubting themselves. As a leader, it is important to constantly
keep up the team’s morale. With these methods, I was able to successfully push
my team member beyond their limits. After two months of intense practicing, I
was able to transform a group of individuals with no previous dancing experience
into a team of great dancers.
Our diligence paid off when
we shocked the audience by winning third place in the talent show. To me, it was
one of the most rewarding experiences of my life because I had successfully
pushed my fraternity brothers to achieve what they perceived as “the
impossible”. However, as I said before, this was only the beginning. Since then,
I gained the respect of my brothers and received the Active of the Year award. I
was also elected to a prestigious pledge dad position in order to continue my
leadership role in the fraternity. This experience has taught me many valuable
lessons that have shaped me into the person I am today and the leader I will
become tomorrow.
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