Everybody Loves Jerry
by Diana Wyant
Hello,
my name is Diana Wyant and I had the special pleasure of hiring Jerry into
Trammell Crow Company.
Please excuse
me if I appear to be distant in relaying thoughts of Jerry to you. At this
time, my heart is heavy and there is great sorrow for the passing of such a
wonderful person. Please know that along with all of you, I love Jerry.
My story with
Jerry begins about 1 year ago:
Jerry’s resume
came across my desk and it almost left my desk without notice. He had just
graduated from UCLA and was working for a start-up company, HoneyB, in which he
was responsible for ensuring we stayed safe from the Bee pests…. It was an
interesting business and unusual not only in the service provided, but in that
he was part of a start-up operation. Although it did not appear he had much
work experience, I loved the initiative and drive I felt he had in order to be a
part of a new organization.
I called Jerry
in for an interview and instantly liked him. He was pleasant and had a lot of
energy. He was always smiling and at first I couldn’t tell if he was laughing
at me or really just that happy…. He also appeared to be very eager to do
anything in our organization, he just wanted an opportunity. He told me his dad
was a professor of real estate at Cal State Northridge which I promptly told him
was wonderful, but it doesn’t mean you are bright; it means your dad is
smart….. I the asked him what he brought to the table. He proceeded to provide
me with a long list …it was exhausting, but as I would later find out, he was
humble and didn’t exaggerate all that he possessed.
I could barely
contain myself as a young, eager, bright person willing to work can be rare. My
challenge: I really didn’t know what to do with him and I felt like maybe the
one job opening available would not be right. Needless to say, I thanked him for
his time and let him know if an opening became available, I would call.
Jerry stayed
in my mind because; he kept calling me to see if there were any opportunities at
TCC. He just wanted his foot in the door; he was willing to do anything.
Eventually, I came to my senses and decided to hire Jerry, but not as an
employee, hired him as a contract worker. I basically told him we really wanted
someone with experience but, I was willing to give him a shot and he had to
prove himself. I threatened him! I didn’t want to see great work and effort
for a day, or a week or two, I wanted to see it all the time and he was required
to learn fast. Now, one would think with my less than enthusiastic approach to
presenting the opportunity, Jerry would turn away…he did not!
Jerry proved
himself immediately within our Company. He had a significant impact on our
organization and all those who worked with him. He worked hard and was a true
pleasure to have around. Jerry was considered a true star, a performer and
results oriented. My peers were very eager to try and steal Jerry from me, I
had to tell people to back off…he’s mine…!
One of my
fondest memories of Jerry was his humor, his wit. Jerry was very sharp and this
was always evident in his humor. A couple of the stories:
- Lollygag
- Writing
Course
There is an
old adage which basically states, there are two things in life we all share in
common, life and death. What really matters and what can really distinguish us
from each other is what we do in between life and death…the years between.
Jerry’s life although short, had much in between … and I consider it an honor
and an absolute joy that I got to know Jerry, work with Jerry and ultimately
learn the importance of living life now, to the fullest with a positive attitude
and action to follow suit. That is how Jerry approached everything in his life;
he gave everything and shared his gifts of intellectual prowess and curiosity,
energy and enthusiasm, humor and wit with a balance of true compassion and
interest in people, an overall joy for life. When I think of Jerry I only have
happy memories, I smile each time the thought of Jerry crosses my mind. He
gave so much and I feel most blessed to have been able to be a part of Jerry’s
life.

Eulogies
Appreciation Remarks from Jerry's
Sister......................................................................................................Ms.
Andrea Chen
From Jerry's
Cousin...............................................................................................................................Ms. Claudia Chen
From Jerry's
Girlfriend.................................................................................................................................Ms.
Vicki Chin
From Jerry's Friend at Trammell
Crow...........................................................................................................Ms.
Patti Maude
From Jerry's Friend at Trammell
Crow..........................................................................................................Ms.
Diana Wyant
From Jerry's Brother of Lambda Phi
Epsilon.......................................................................................................Dr.
Jack Chen
From Jerry's Brother of Lambda Phi
Epsilon.......................................................................................................Mr.
Frank Ngo
From Jerry's High School
Friend......................................................................................................................Mr.
Peter Kim
From Jerry's High School
Friend....................................................................................................................Mr.
Samuel Lin
From Jerry's Friend at Trammell Crow...............................................................................................................Mr.
Ron Heim
Concluding Remarks From Jerry's
Father.........................................................................................................Dr.
Chao Chen
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